Romance writer Chloe Thurlow

Literary romance

Nymphomania and the New Sexual Revolution

This is the dawning of the Age of Nymphomania. Nymphomania – Uncontrollable or excessive sexual desire in a woman – Oxford Dictionary Nymphomania – Hypersexuality: female sex drive that is obsessively high. Considered a mental illness, colloquially meaning a horny girl – Urban Dictionary After the long years of the Sexual Revolution, bra burning, feminism, post feminism, equal rights and sexual rights, those born in the smouldering ash of these

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Make Money Dating With The New Ohlala App

To make money dating is a dream come true for countless girls across the planet bogged down by high rents, low wages, boring boyfriends and dates that turn sour before the champagne’s even been opened. All that could be a thing of the past with a provocatively-named new app called Ohlala that simplifies all those planning and preparation texts to create hook-ups where girls can make money dating guys who,

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Virgin Orgasm and a Girl’s First Wet Dream

Virgin orgasm is as normal as breathing, as natural as sunshine, as healthy as a long swim in a warm sea. Your first virgin orgasm comes at puberty and strikes like an electric shock, buzzing, shimmering, unexpected. You have opposing feelings of shame and pride, a touch of fear and a tremor of joy. It is overwhelming, mysterious, magical. Puberty is a metamorphosis. You get longer, thinner, shapelier. You bottom

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Discovering The Meaning of Love

On sleepless nights, I have often thought about the meaning of love and watched in the early hours as the night planes arrive in London carrying sleepless people, some in love, some lost, some thinking about the meaning of love.  When you remove love from sex you enter a mansion with many rooms shaded in nuance and excess, an invitation to peel away all conventions and programming. A chance to explore

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Better Sex With A Younger Man

Sex with a younger man makes you feel like a flower just opened, a tiny bird taking wing for the first time, a survivor in a sea of broken dreams. There is no past, no future. Just that glorious moment. Like a camera flash. Like the glimpse of a miracle. Like the surprise half hoped for that you never thought was going to come. There is nothing like sex with a

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That Inexplicable Rush of Optimism

7.30. I wake with the sun bright through the winter window and an inexplicable rush of optimism. 8.10. Coffee opposite my flat in Calle Diputacion, Barcelona, with Nuria, 23, hair dyed henna red, thin as a knife with a wide leather belt, skinny jeans and a sky blue leather jacket. We speak Spanish. She corrects me, waving her finger. That evening, she is meeting two old university friends from Gerona

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Naked Girls Riding Bareback on a White Horse

One summer when I was studying Spanish in Salamanca, Amadeo, a family friend who knew I liked riding, invited me to visit for the weekend. Riding bareback was the custom on his ranch, but it wasn’t until I arrived at the stables that I discovered riding bareback with Amadeo meant montar a caballo desnuda – riding stark naked. It was a hot July day, the air thin and dry. My clothes

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How To Undress A Woman

You undress a woman in the same way that you would open a magic box sealed by an angel’s kiss. Just as the act of love should never be rushed – except between floors in an elevator, or with a stranger on a train – you should undress a woman with the same slow devotion she has shown in getting dressed. Getting dressed for a woman is an art form,

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Spanking and Blowjobs Are Human Nature

Spanking and Blowjobs Facts Spanking and blowjobs are life-affirming bonds between lovers at the very heart of human nature. Spanking and blowjobs for a woman are deliciously feminine, forms of intimacy more compelling than intercourse. Spanking and blowjobs are a meditation, the pathway leading to the inner you. Men can’t help thinking that the woman is giving him a blowjob, or he is giving her a spanking. But it’s not like

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It’s-a-Match on Tinder is About Sex Not Love

On Saturday I went to my first Tinder wedding at a church near Canterbury. Natalie is an old school friend who saw Jamie’s photo in her catchment area on Tinder and swiped right. Jamie swiped right when he saw Natalie and the app flashed It’s-a-Match. Getting It’s-a-Match on your phone is like winning the sex lottery and Tinder has the same addictive quality as online games – with one big

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What’s Saturnalia Got To Do With Christmas Anyway?

In the bleak midwinter there was nothing Roman pagans looked forward to more than the annual Saturnalia. It was a time for unrestrained revelry, lose morals, over-eating and drinking like the sun may never rise again. At the height of the festivities, sodden groups of friends would strip naked and go from door to door singing bawdy songs before going home to saturnalian orgies. ‘They were,’ the poet Gaius Valerius Catallus

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Bondage for Beginners

Elizabeth Morris Guest Blog Being in a relationship when you have found the right partner can be immensely satisfying and comforting. You may have had a really demanding day at the office, but you get to come home, reconnect with your partner, hear about their day and chat about about your plans for the evening or weekend ahead. A good partner will be there to comfort you when you go through

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Seven Secrets of Writing Great Erotica

Writing great erotica requires originality and innovation. Great erotica touches sense points in the dark corridors of the mind. Great erotica makes you see yourself in a different light. Great erotica reminds you that you are here to live life fully, not as a clone paddling through the limp waters on the edge of life, but in the fast currents mid-stream at the heart of life. Writing great erotica is

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Confessions of a Coffee Addict

I am a coffee addict and I have got my first New Year resolution lined up ready to go: I am going to give up trying to give up coffee. Apart from being a coffee addict, I am also an insomniac, thrive on stress and drink too much bubbly  – on occasions. In the past, when I did give up coffee, I still didn’t sleep, traded coffee for chocolate, suffered migraines

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Slave Girl With The Spider Tattoo

A line ran from below my bottom lip, around the curve of my chin and down between my breasts in a blue thread to the spider tattoo on the dome of my shaved pubis. My belly was adorned with a green stone, shiny as an emerald, the colour of my eyes. From the ramparts, I watched a pickup cross the desert. It shot by the caravanserai, the driver tooted his horn as he

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Breaking Up is Just Beginning to Live Again

Breaking up breaks your heart. Breaking up is like a nervous breakdown. Breaking up makes you feel as if you have done something wrong, made some terrible error, that there is something wrong with you – even when you know it’s not your fault. We search for blame after breaking up. But, more often than not, there is no blame. Relationships hang on slender threads. They wear thin and suddenly

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Teen Blowjobs Giving Head Fellatio

Two in three teens have had oral sex and teen blowjobs is one of the top ten enquiries on search engines. The figures come from research by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), and marks a ‘hierarchical reordering of oral sex in American culture,’ according to Justin Garcia, an evolutionary biologist with the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. Mothers watching their daughters grow up in the sexting, nude-selfie

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Sisters on the Hill of Widows

When night falls on Tapaye Zanabad, one of the hills surrounding Kabul, women appear with shovels and sieves. They work in the dark, digging in the mud to shape bricks with their bare hands to build adobe houses. Tapaye Zanabad means ‘built by women’ in Dari, the local language, but the steep, featureless incline is now more commonly known as the Hill of Widows. The women living on the hill lost

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Just a Touch in a Typhoon

Rachel de Vine Guest Blog Chloe Thurlow’s recent blog about sex with a stranger brought back a sweet memory of that night in a typhoon on board a ship travelling between Singapore and Perth when I learned that just a touch can say more that a million words. I had spent three months travelling alone across Asia. I arrived in Singapore and booked a passage to Perth, Western Australia. When I boarded

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Why Sex With A Stranger Made Me Feel Like Me Again

Sex with a stranger makes you feel decadent, a risk taker, young again. Sex with a stranger is life on the edge. Everything else is life wrapped in cotton wool. All girls have sex with a stranger fantasies and fantasies played out are healthier than those that have been left to fester and go mouldy. When we look back, we don’t regret the things we have done, only the things left

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