Romance writer Chloe Thurlow

Literary romance

Spanking and Blowjobs Are Human Nature

Spanking and Blowjobs Facts

  • Spanking and blowjobs are life-affirming bonds between lovers at the very heart of human nature.
  • Spanking and blowjobs for a woman are deliciously feminine, forms of intimacy more compelling than intercourse.
  • Spanking and blowjobs are a meditation, the pathway leading to the inner you.

Men can’t help thinking that the woman is giving him a blowjob, or he is giving her a spanking. But it’s not like that. Spanking and blowjobs are mutually satisfying, each partner giving and receiving pleasure in their own way. A spanking has little or no connection to a beating, and a woman would always be loath, except on pains of more tyranny, to give the bully a blowjob.

Spanking and blowjobs are about love, not power. They answer needs planted deep in the roots of our DNA – not the purely animal instinct to reproduce, but mankind’s tendency to want more, to go further, to delve into the hidden corners of our secret desires. We crawled out of the primeval swamp, mated, grew legs and marched across the planet, evolving and reinventing ourselves as we went.

Endlessly making love missionary style is all every well within the moral restraints of past times and missionaries, but instantly on facing a barrier, a limitation, a sign saying NO, it is human nature to rip it down. The pleasure in taboo comes from breaking it.

Urges for Spanking and Blowjobs

When children in kindergarten grow bored with their own toys, they grab those of others. As soon as the babe in arms can throw a fist he will hit his own mother. Eating all the cookies in the tin is normal. So is eating an ice cream and wanting more, or having a lover and wanting another. Our natural instincts are moderated by programming, by education. But the primal urge to transgress remains beyond the restrictions of society, religion, family or feminism.

And there is nothing more feminine than lying naked across the knees of your lover exposing your most delicate parts to the weight of his hands. A loving, sensitive, but good hard smack sends warm gushes to the pleasure gardens where the clitoris and G-spot dwell like flowers waiting for the sun to open their buds.

A firm spanking on a willing bottom prepares a woman’s body for the next phase of foreplay, his (or her) tongue delving into the cavern of your vagina to moisten the blooming buds and awaken all the humming nerve endings until they fizz and erupt in orgasm. A spanking from an attentive partner will make you feel wanton, wild, vaguely wicked, completely human and thoroughly satisfied.

Spanking and Blowjobs Big Bang

A blowjob inspires the same feeling as a spanking, that sense of pleasure through breaking the rules because you know between the bedsheets of love there are no rules except the constant hunger for gratification and bliss.

When you bring a man to orgasm in your mouth, you feel his entire body tense and turn liquid. There is something irresistible, powerful, even poetic, sliding the soft skin of his penis over the membranes of your throat, lips pressed tight to form a vacuum, sucking and licking the bulbous head as you look up into his eyes.

When his spasms grow faster and he bursts in orgasm, there is a feeling of petite mort, the little death of ending, but also contentment, achievement. The orgasm is like the Big Bang that created the universe, the explosion that brought all things to life.

Male semen is the pure spirit of the Big Bang. Semen makes skin softer, has an inimitable bittersweet taste like a rare fruit from a faraway planet and contains a pinch of protein as well as a cocktail of energizing chemicals: estrone and oxytocin (both uppers), melatonin (for sleep), cortisol (a stress buster), thyrotropin (an anti-depressant) and serotonin (an antidepressant neurotransmitter). It comes in small quantities, so the more you drink the better you feel.

Freud got it all wrong when he said women suffer penis envy. A woman naked on her knees performing fellatio feels no jealousy or resentment. She feels a deep and abiding connection, she feels as if she is doing what she was born to do, what she innately desires and society innately denies her. A woman is not objectified giving head. On the contrary, it is the male penis.

Spanking and Blowjobs Meditation

It is hard to fix this in the western mind, but the purpose of meditation is not to meditate on something, but meditate on nothing.

Whether you are pinned down over a pair of knees or absorbed in the quickening rhythms of fellatio, when you stop gazing back into the past or looking ahead to the future, when your mind is empty of everything except the moment, the body is set free, all stress and anxiety disappear and you enter the pure energy of the present.

Meditation is a practise designed to reach Nirvana – perfect bliss, heaven – but whether you reach this divine pinnacle or not, spanking and blowjobs make the journey just as beneficial as the destination.

oOo

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12 Discussions on
“Spanking and Blowjobs Are Human Nature”
  • n ‘être qu une ombre
    nos corps seraient dénudés , enlacés , se désirais
    de la vie tout oublier , vouloir recommencer
    ton corps se courberait sous mes caresses
    ton coeur se gonflerait par mes faiblesses
    laissons nous allez dans nos élans
    à l infinie s ‘ombrer profondèment
    au creux des reins te recevoir
    juste nous donner , du je au tu vouloir
    puis recommencer et vivre , vivre
    en amour libre , libre
    mon souhait pour toi
    que tu sois
    Amoureuse , évidente
    Bienheureuse, aussi
    Chanceuse je t’espère
    Divine, c est mieux
    pour ton élu, bien sur
    Folie, parfois
    Gérée , entre toi et ton élu
    Harmonies, du couple
    Érotique, jamais
    Jeune, oui toujours
    Ksis, oui tout pleins
    Langoureuse , vos baisers
    Mélancolique, parfois
    Naissance, c est son accomplissement
    Opportuniste, trole croient
    Platonique, possible mais pas toi
    Q , oui aussi
    Radical , oui avec l ‘amour c est bien plus beau

  • ‘Meditation’ is a good word to describe that spiritual connection of a woman on her knees giving her man a blow job and his enjoyment. One of the most delightful manifestations of getting a BJ is watching the woman’s eyes peering upwards to ensure that her man is savouring the experience, as he runs his hands through her hair, gripping it tightly and directing her head. Ah, bliss!

    I also like delivering the cane across a woman’s naked bottom vertically as she lies across the bed, with my cock in her mouth. The rythm of the cane advises her to suck harder as I move from cheek to cheek with my rattan rat-a-tat.

    Yes, we’re an inventive species :-)

    FJ

      • Thanks Chloe, I also enjoy your writings. My life has been an adventure down many roads with a variety of people across the globe. It takes a lot to get me really interested so you’re travelling pretty well;-)
        Stay well,

        FJ

  • My ex could never get over the idea that any kind of oral was about subjugating the giver. Couldn’t make her see that giving the gift of pleasure, the gift of orgasm, was an act of pure love.

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